tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-37198817768538200892024-03-14T04:50:30.619+00:00Notes Across The SeaJenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02017085659036507411noreply@blogger.comBlogger286125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-78556830100154441022014-07-24T14:51:00.001+01:002014-07-24T15:06:57.354+01:00Thursday, 24th July, 2014 - empty nest<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I seem to have an empty nest! Joe has stayed at his girlfriend's more and more lately, and now he hasn't been home to sleep in about six or seven weeks. He's 23, so I guess it's about time. I was pregnant with him at that age, gosh where did all those years go? I'm hoping soon he'll sort his things out and free up some space. I'm excited at the thought of an extra wardrobe and some bookshelves, and in the long term I'm thinking maybe craft room. We're actually probably seeing more of Joe and Sarah since he moved out, which is an unexpected bonus. Rather than Joe being in his room most of the time when he was here, now they come for a proper visit and we talk. A few times we've had a dinner and film night. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I sat in the garden for a while this afternoon. Despite the proximity of the neighbours and the urban setting, it's mostly very quiet out there. Just birdsong and, in term time, the sound of the children in the playground of the primary school over the back. I never mind the sound of children playing. We're in a heatwave (yuck) and I am so thankful that most days I don't have to go anywhere and can stay here with long cool drinks and the fan going. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I do love my little garden. This year I have my favourites, sweet peas, you can see them in the picture and the wispy things in the basket on the fence are night scented stocks. They nothing to look at, but have such a gorgeous scent in the evenings. Further down the garden I have two blueberry bushes in pots, they hardly keep us in blueberries to be honest, but even the few that we get every few days are worth it. So much nicer on our breakfast than shop-bought ones. I've also got a pepper plant, but I noticed this morning that the buds have shrivelled up. My chilli was looking sad so I re-potted it this morning, but I do have two lovely cucumbers on my cucumber plant, so that's something. I'd like to do more veg, but it basically has to be in pots, and also my garden is a sort of late night disco for slugs. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">Have you seen a picture of our lovely Star, before? She is Joe's dog he's had since he was 12, she is coming up to eleven years old. We had a health scare with her recently, and we've been told by the vet to expect bad news before too long. She seems fine at the moment though, so we're making the most of her. She's getting extra treats and getting away with coming on our bed some Sunday mornings for a cuddle, never allowed before. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I liked hearing about your visit to the fair. Your girls are getting so grown up and Emily has a boyfriend! Make the most of your fledglings. Before you know it, they'll be flown. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Trebuchet MS, sans-serif;">I hope you're having a wonderful Thursday, </span><br />
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Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12552906108818415448noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-54021900091600098972014-07-23T05:28:00.000+01:002014-07-23T05:28:48.924+01:00July 22, 2014 - Summer Fair<br />
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Hello friend,<br />
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I hope that by writing in this space, I will be better at keeping in touch. I miss our weekly correspondence. I know it has come in bits. Life here is hectic, with one teenager and one girl on the cusp in the house. We are quite often on the go.<br />
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It's summer here and that means tonight we went to the County Fair. It ended at 11:00 pm and so writing this now at 11:30 pm, I realize it's 5:30 am where you are. I am putting an end to my day as you will be starting soon. <br />
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The County Fair. How to describe it. All the farm kids in the 4H club (Head, Heart, Hands, Health) bring their animals to show. The cow barn, the poultry barn, the pig barn, the horse barn, the goat barn (my favorite!). All the animals are cleaned up so pretty and ready for a pet. One of the previous visits to the fair a goat decided to grab and eat my sweater. I can't resist the little buggers though.<br />
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Tonight though, as the girls are older, it was all about the rides. Em was meeting a friend and her boyfriend (yes, boyfriend) there and quickly disappeared for the evening. I think how different it is than when I was her age. My parents would have never dreamed of letting me run off with friends, but in the age of cell phones, we could simply text each other meet up points over the course of the evening.<br />
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So I was left with K and her cousin. Once I let go of the fact that we were waiting a good long while for the rides, I relaxed and enjoyed myself. I don't usually do well in crowds. It is funny to think again, how it seems like not that long ago, my entire world was carrying my two littles around and standing with them next to the horses on the carousel and now I have been delegated to the status of drink holder. I have to say though, it brought a smile to my face to see them experiencing things, like the first time on a scary ride, or the first time with the freedom to explore. <br />
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The sounds of rides whirring by, the sound of screaming, the smell of popcorn and funnel cake. The sun disappearing behind the flashing lights. We made our way out to the field across from the fairgrounds just after 11:00 warm from the heat, sick from the sweet drinks and tired from a full night. It only comes once a year and we don't always go, but it is a perfect summer memory.<br />
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The girls are all tucked into bed (including the cousin who came home with us) spent, and I am typing this quick note to you, before another week passes by. <br />
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Looking forward to your news,<br />
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I am so glad you liked the parcel, especially the scarf, I thought that colour was so you. And yes, it took me AGES to knit, which is why you got it in February and not for Christmas as I originally planned! I enjoyed knitting it though, it is nice to knit for someone else, the anticipation of giving the gift is part of the pleasure of making it.<br />
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It's great to read over at your blog how your business plans are coming along, everything seems to be falling into place. I loved your writing in Kindred magazine and photograph on the cover as I have told you before, it's lovely to see you sharing your gifts, and amazing to me that you manage to do it all with two children and a full time job!<br />
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I liked your story about shopping for the girls' boots. My Mum always says when we went shopping I would never be interested in what we were supposed to be shopping for, but would want something completely different. I am still the same! My eye is distracted by pretty things - generally scarves, bags or stationery - all of which I have lots of already, when I am supposedly looking for a pair of jeans, or a coat. I don't like shopping anyway, and especially not in malls, those Cathedrals to the great God of Shopping where we are supposed to get dressed up and parade around on the weekend, ugh. At least, that's what they are like here - you need a fake tan, false eyelashes and heels just to go shopping. I don't think so. Give me interesting independent little shops any day, or at least a shopping centre that actually has streets, and fresh air.<br />
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I've had a busy few days. A friend's hen night on Saturday, errands and visiting family Sunday, a concert last night. I'm feeling pretty shattered, sleeping too much, no energy and permanent foggy brain. I've taken no photos for days. And I have just realised it is Tuesday, which totally illustrates my earlier point. Is there any hope for me?<br />
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<br />Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12552906108818415448noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-70594305006577659522013-02-21T12:45:00.000+00:002013-02-21T12:45:05.332+00:00Thursday, February 21, 2013<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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Again, another week has almost passed before I wrote to you. I woke up this morning and remembered I hadn't posted anything yet. So where to begin....<br />
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First and foremost I have to send you a great big hug and thank you for my package! What a surprise I didn't even know it was coming and it was so chock full of good things. I keep going back and through it and find delight in it again and again. That scarf is the most amazing thing ever. I cannot knit, tried crochet once and was utter failure (no manual dexterity) so I am just amazed by knitting and the things people can make. It's gorgeous and warm and a most beautiful shade of blue. I have taken to wearing it everywhere out and around the house and even at work. The dishcloths, well they just seem too pretty to use. All of it was amazing and that note card will probably end up framed. Emily has stolen the stickers and is putting them everywhere including her phone, we can't wait to sit down and play the game. Love to you my friend, you made my day....<br />
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What has been going on here? We've reached that time of year (mid-February) when I begin to really hate winter. I am ready for it to be gone. We aren't getting any snow and it's been bitter, bitter cold and we're all just tired of being stuck inside. I long to feel the sun's warmth and see a bit of green come back. I've been diligently feeding my birds and they are taking full advantage. We get a good range of woodpeckers, titmice, chickadees, sparrows, blue jays, and doves. The last two days though the red-wing blackbirds have been taking over and devouring it all. While I love seeing them in the fields (that little flash of red) I don't so much like when they take over and leave my little birds with nothing.<br />
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A funny story from this week, I took the girls boot shopping last weekend which was a trying affair. After six stores (K has very wide feet and it can be difficult to find her shoes) and K running around the store away from me in a huff) I pulled out a line that cracked me up later. I said "<i>GO sit down. When I was a girl, my mother took me to ONE shoe store and we picked out ONE pair and we wore them all year long</i>". Might as well have added a bit about walking to school uphill in eight feet of snow. In the second store, I sat on the floor next to her and said "<i>Please don't make your mother cry in Bass, you will be so embarrassed</i>". I'm sure there are many more one-liners to come. In the end, both girls got a pair of boots and K ended up with a pair of Converse sneakers that are too cute on her AND fit.<br />
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I guess that's about it for now. I had better get out of my robe and fuzzy socks and get ready for work. Bundle up to go out in the big freeze. Until next week my friend....xoxoxo.<br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Valentines Day today - do your girls get involved with the class Valentines and everything? I think it's a much bigger thing over there than here, here it's just a romantic thing, you don't have to give them to your friends too. The Prof drew me a lovely card with my dream cottage on, a bit of a theme for us. I made him one too, and we decided not to bother with gifts. I told him I'll have some flowers next time we are at the supermarket! We are in London tomorrow as I have a hospital appointment, and I think we might visit a museum in the afternoon and have lunch out, so that can be our Valentine treat.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">It's 8am, early for me - there is usually only one 8 o'clock in my day! I am up early today as I am off with seven friends to a craft fair. I am not feeling great lately as you know, but hoping it won't be too much for me, if it is I will park myself in the tea room with a cream tea and my book.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">I read your tweet today about doing yoga with short hair - I never thought about that before, but it must be easier for you! I am going to be doing some yoga myself, Rachel at <a href="http://massage-movement.co.uk/">Fusion Studio</a> is going to work with me to create a sequence I can do with my various health issues. In the meantime I have been practising yoga nidra, a short practice I only have to lie down for! Are you familiar with that? I really like it.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Here I am again, 8pm and feeling pretty tired. It was a really good day, but sadly no cream tea! I did find some bread pudding though, so I brought a slab of that home to share with the Prof. I spent some money I had for Christmas, and now have the makings of four more projects! I had a go at some deco patch while I was there (see photo).</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Well that's it for now. We have the last episode of Lewis to watch, so I am going to try to stay awake for that, then an early night. Hospital appointment tomorrow.</span><br />
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</span><span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Good luck with the decluttering! Hoping to get some done myself this weekend.</span><br />
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Hi friend! I'm sorry so long has passed since I've gotten this letter to you. I had all intentions to post this on Friday! I don't know where the weekends go really. I cannot believe I am sitting here typing this on Monday morning. I really hate trying to fit everything into two days. I'm sitting in bed right now, trying to get Em up for school. She came in bed with me in the middle of the night and every five minutes or so I lean over and give her a good shake. I wasn't prepared for the fact that the teenage years were going to start at eleven. Seriously. I thought that at eleven we were still going to be playing with dolls and acting the sweetheart. She spent the night at a friend's Saturday night which resulted in little sleep and came home yesterday around noon and slept from about 3:00 to 6:00 then went to bed last night at 9:00 and I am (failing) at dragging her out of bed now. <br />
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It's pouring rain outside right now. Pouring...and dark which is making it impossible to want to get out of bed. New England got a ton of snow this weekend, but nothing here. Just more rain. Last week we had a few dustings each day, but nothing to really enjoy. At this rate if we aren't going to get a big one, I would just as leave move on to Spring. I don't typically mind the rain, but cold rain does not work for me.<br />
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Declutter time for you huh? Me too. I am tired of it. I can't ever figure out how we get so much stuff. I keep trying to minimize and things seem to keep finding their way in. I started to try with FlyLady's routines when I had that long weekend in January, but have found that being back at work I can't keep up. That and I hate that they are sending me about 20 emails a day, which is not helping me get more organized at all. I am going to try the one you wrote about and I have a book on my Kindle called <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B002TG4P0E/ref=oh_d__o02_details_o02__i00">Get It Together Girl</a>, that looks like a pretty good plan. <br />
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K and I took a hike on Sunday morning, since the weather was decent and it took the wind out of my sails. I seriously didn't get much of anything else done, a sure indicator that I need to get my butt up and out more often. This is a photo that K took from the car of the cows on one of our favorite roads on the way home. They all stopped and looked at us, like, hey, what are you doing, there?<br />
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I'm sorry to hear you are feeling down. I wish I had some words of wisdom or advice, but it just sounds like a bugger.<br />
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Mr. Selfridge? Oh no, not another show to get hooked on. We finished Doc Martin and now I'm going back to watch the end of Lewis. We're midway through Downton Abbey here on television and my grandmother has Call The Midwife that I got her on DVD for me to watch eventually. Seems though sometimes not much else gets done when there is so much good British television to watch.<br />
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Cheers to you all, hope you are feeling a bit better. Let's hope that Spring comes sooner rather than later for both of us!!!<br />
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I am really tired lately. I don't know if it's that the Christmas activities have taken it out of me, but I seem to be needing so much sleep again, I am rarely up before noon the last week or two, which I hate, but it's the only way I can function. Then of course I am not tired at night and end up going to bed late, which just makes the whole cycle worse. I am eating a low glycaemic diet again, and when I was eating like this last year, I had a period of several weeks when I felt the best I have for years. It doesn't seem to have happened again this time, maybe it was just a coincidental fluke. On the positive side, my leg, which has been painful and stiff for months and I was thinking was arthritis, has been much better for a few days. A few weeks ago I was prescribed Vitamin D as I am deficient in it, so I am wondering if it was a problem caused by that, as I know it can cause bone problems, and maybe the supplement is helping. Fingers crossed. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">I spent a lovely few hours yesterday with my Mum and Aunt, looking at old photographs. We came across a picture of my cousin when he was twenty or so (he is now fifty), and I really thought for a moment that it was the Young Philosopher, it was so like him! Isn't it strange, the way these likenesses run through families, in ways you don't expect? </span><br />
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No prizes for guessing what I will be doing today (see photo!) There is laundry everywhere and I still haven't put away my Christmas and birthday presents. I've basically ignored all the post I have received for the past month as well. I think I am still in Christmas mode! I hope to get things tidied up in time to sit with the latest episode of <a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/tv-and-radio/tvandradioblog/2013/jan/07/is-mr-selfridge-new-downton-abbey">Mr Selfridge</a> and my knitting before it's time to cook dinner. Meatballs with <a href="http://www.food.com/recipe/cream-sauce-for-swedish-meatballs-97674">Ikea sauce</a> this evening, and then I am out to my book club. </span><br />
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I actually had to re-title this post twice as I had put the photo up Tuesday and started writing this on Thursday! It seems these weeks keep sneaking by so fast. <br />
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I had the little one home three days sick with a stomach virus. While the initial part of the sick was not so nice, it was a dream to be home with her all day. I didn't even care that I wasn't getting anything done the first day as she basically sat on my lap and slept on and off all day. The third day she was feeling a bit better and challenged me to a game of Monopoly which is the longest....game....ever. There was such a nice relaxed rhythm to our days. I would get Em off to school, help out K, do some chores around the house. All the Christmas things finally got taken to the basement and my kitchen got a good sort and cleaning. Ah, on days like those I dream of being a stay-at-home mama.<br />
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It's snowing again here today. Just started, it's about 2:00 in the afternoon. We aren't expecting much but the girls will get out of school about an hour and a half early. I will still be working until about 6:00 pm and am hoping I don't have to drive in any. As much as I love snow I <strong>HATE</strong> driving in it. I am glad to see that you got your snow. Hooray!!! About time. Our birds are going crazy this week, eating everything in sight, I will have to get birdseed and suet again this weekend. <br />
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So it's been a pretty quiet week. I have dinner out with some old friends on Saturday and am taking the girls over to my once sister-in-laws for some art lessons. Maybe she can teach me a thing or two, but I doubt it!<br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">I really like your hair! Mine was a spur of the moment decision when actually in the chair, it usually is, when I decide on something drastic. I would like to have streaks put in really, but resisting as its do expensive and time consuming to keep up with the roots every few weeks. I don't know if I will keep it short, my usual pattern is cut it short every few years, then grow it again. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">The book you are reading sounds interesting, what's it called? I like the idea of micro movements. My friend Mary, who was on the Mondo Beyondo course with us, has something she calls the 'back of the envelope theory of creativity'. You write down what you want to achieve and next to each item, add the tiniest thing you can do to move it forward. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Your theatre trip sounds lovely. We saw War of the Worlds in December, the Prof's birthday present from April that he had to wait a long time for! We are spoilt for choice here in terms of theatres, cinemas, we have several to choose from and of course the West End not far away. I know how lucky we are to have so much on our doorsteps, but like your brother, I envy you those trees. </span><br />
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I love seeing you again! It must have been awhile since I've seen a photo, because I don't remember your hair being that short. It's cute. I cut my hair yesterday. It's the first time it's been shorter since I graduated from high school which was 1990, so that's been (ugh) twenty-two years ago. I was a little unsure and have been kicking it around for about a year now, but bit the bullet finally and I like it, it's cute and bouncy and feels good. I'm mourning my long hair a little bit, it was such a part of who I was, but I figured will grow out if I want it too fairly quickly, but for now I'm happy. Lots of compliments today, which made me feel better. <br />
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Thanks for the advice on the teenager issue. Em is just about twelve now, so I can only imagine what more fun there is to be had. It's flashbacks of my Mom and I with her. I told Mom the other day I didn't know how she didn't kill me, and she said, sometimes it was tempting. The last few days have been pretty mild. It's ups and downs I guess. I will take your advice though about spending time with her. Even if she is a cross monkey!!!<br />
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Sounds like you all have been having a great time. What wonderful trips. I envy you going all these places and learning all this history. We had been a bit overwhelmed by Christmas but we went to the theatre on Saturday to a production of Cinderella with my Mom. It was her birthday presents to us. It was a fantastic production, actors, costume, set were all gorgeous and we had front row orchestra seats. We stopped to see my brother and his girlfriend after. They recently moved to the city (Baltimore) and we stopped to see their new place and dinner. It is so different being in the city. We talked at dinner about city living versus country living and agreed there are trade-offs. I love that they have so many amazing restaurants and shops and of course, theatres and museums and such, but my brother said he is envious of all my trees that I have here, so I guess there are pluses and minuses to both. Though it was a fun visit I could never see myself living in the city. I was quite confused as we drove around (Mom drove, not me) and all the noise and cars and hustle and bustle made me feel overwhelmed. I will take my slow, quiet days here and not complain about the bellowing of the bull or the barking of dogs.<br />
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Have fun going through the photos with your family. From time to time I have sat down with my grandparents to look at their photos and once we start I swear I could just stay all night. I love looking through them.<br />
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I am reading a book and though it's about seeing your creative projects through it made me think of both of us. It talked about being overwhelmed and instead of giving up and doing nothing it talked about doing micro-movements. I thought it was very applicable to everyday life as I am the worst procrastinator ever and I know that with your CFS some days it is hard for you. It talked about how just a series of less than five minute tasks can lead to getting things done. I thought I might give it a try at the house. Like I will put two things away today, or I will clean off this one little section of counter. Some days I think we have to give ourselves credit for the things we do rather than harp on all the things that don't get done. There's always a list of those isn't there. But if I think that today I did grocery and two loads of laundry and cleaned the cat box and gave myself a pat on the back for keeping going when I'm dead tired from working and cooking and tending two demanding children than that helps. Tonight the girls went to visit their father and I actually fell asleep on the couch. I woke up about a half hour later and thought well that was nice! I don't know if that's helpful or not, but I like the whole micro-movement idea, perhaps I will copy it and send it to you.<br />
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Well, it's getting late, the girls are off school the next two days and we all three have off school and work for Martin Luther King Jr day on Monday, so I am looking forward to a long weekend. No plans except taking the girls and friends to see The Hobbit on Monday, (did you say you saw it?) and Em has a project where you turn a pair of old jeans into a skirt, so we may try that. I swore we were going to do a quilt together this winter, but so far the fabric hasn't been brought up from the bins yet. Perhaps we can try that.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">Sorry to hear things are a challenge for you at the moment. The Young Philosopher was an easy teenager really, to be honest, though I don't know if that was because he was home educated from the age of eleven. There's so much less to rebel against when there's no homework, schedules, or having to get up so early, and also not the same kind of peer pressure. When he did get uptight about something though, he could argue for England, and he still can, it's exhausting when it happens. I read a book years ago called 'How to Behave so Your Children Will Too' and one thing that stuck with me, is the idea that children behave in a certain way because they are getting some kind of pay off. The idea is to work out what that pay off is for them and then damn well make sure they don't get it, and hopefully the behaviour will change. Another thing I think can help is to spend more time with them (yeah I know, exactly at the time when you are sick of the sight of them!). Maybe a lunch out just the two of you, or special time working on something together when K is in bed? I don't have any answers, just the odd thing that I found helped a bit over the years.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">I have been a bit blah this week too. I do get fed up at home all week on my own and not always well enough to do much. I think I said something similar last week! I find it depressing too, looking at my poor little house that I haven't got the energy to much with. I did go out on Tuesday though, with Mum and Curly Girl, to a local talk </span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">by a survivor of the </span><a href="http://www.stairwaytoheavenmemorial.org/gpage5.html" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Bethnal Green Tube Disaster</a><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">, the largest civilian disaster of the Second World War, when 173 people were crushed to death as they descended the steps to the underground station, which was used as an air raid shelter. It was a very moving story, and I will be going to Bethnal Green in the future to see the planned long-overdue memorial for which funds are currently being raised. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">This weekend we have been out and about a bit. Yesterday we went to a talk in the local </span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">church</span><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;"> hall about the history of tea, you would probably have enjoyed it! Today we had tickets for an exhibition at the Museum of London, one of my Christmas presents to the Prof. Entitled </span><a href="http://www.museumoflondon.org.uk/London-Wall/Whats-on/Exhibitions-Displays/Doctors-Dissection-Resurrection-Men/" style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Doctors, Dissection and Resurrection Men</a><span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">, it centred around the practice of grave robbing in order to provide doctors with bodies in order to find out more about the human body and to improve their skills, which was very prevalent at one time. This is much more the Prof's kind of thing than mine, but I did find it interesting. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">We've been researching some family history again this week, too - and I am really pleased to have found the name of my <a href="http://musingsandbemusings.blogspot.co.uk/2012/11/1111-lest-we-forget.html">Great Uncle </a>who died aged 21 in the First World War, on a brass plaque in a church in East London. We have been round all the war memorials we knew of, looking for his name in the past, and we finally found details of the memorial plaque his name is on online last night. We visited the church this afternoon, but couldn't get in. We will go back another time. As you said, I am very interested in family history and always plan to put something together, and never get around to it. It would be nice to work on that this year, I have made a start by planning a day with my Mum, cousin and Auntie to look at all the old family photographs (also eat scones and drink tea, obviously). </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">So, a busy few days for me really. I have been wondering today why I feel so tired, and then writing this out to you now I realise how busy I have been, so no wonder! That and the fact that I only got five hours sleep last night - reading in bed too late. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">I do hope there is nicer weather this year - you are right, I didn't get to do much with the garden last year. I did put some bedding plants in pots and baskets, but then nothing thrived very well being constantly waterlogged, and it was mostly too wet to sit out there. My little mosaic table is all green and will need a good scrubbing when the weather turns a bit warmer, at the moment it's taters outside (there's some cockney rhyming slang for you) so I am staying firmly in the warm. In the Spring I have plans for sweet peas as always, my favourite! and I would like some tomatoes and maybe some other veg that I can grow easily in pots. I am hoping the blueberry I bought last year will survive the winter, too. I haven't thought much further than that, yet.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">That's it from me for now, it's 7.40pm and I am going to watch some TV, have a cheeky glass of cherry brandy and knit. Then an early(ish) night. My kind of evening. </span><br />
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Here I am again. It's late. I'm in bed and sending this to you quickly before I go to sleep. It's been a bugger of a week. Both girls have had colds. We've had three key people out sick this week at work (which in our small office is half the staff). We had a little burst of snow on Sunday morning which was lovely to wake up to, but was gone by mid-afternoon. This week it's been about 50 degrees which I guess to you would be about 10 degrees Celsius. (I guess it's weird we have different measurements than the rest of the world, I always think about that when I consider sending you magazines with recipes in it!!) Anyway, while I am not a huge fan of winter, I don't like this "<em>sort of</em>" winter we are having. The temperatures are going up and down and up and down on a regular basis. I bought the girls a sled last weekend so now we are sure not to get any snow. <br />
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I've kind of had the blues this week. I am having a horrid time with my oldest right now. I don't know how a teenage boy was for you, but an almost twelve year old girl right now is a horror to have in the house. I don't know what happens, Em has always been a good girl, but she's really pushing the limits right now and declaring her opinion on things loudly and sarcastically whenever she feels like it. I can let a lot of things go, but she's pushing the line of respect and I've pulled out the big guns and made some threats I will never follow up on "<em>If you can't respect me, you WILL NOT live in this house</em>". As well as ones that I will follow up on "<em>No phone, no computer for a week</em>". I hate to see where we go from here and I hate that I feel like I'm not managing her correctly. I've always considered myself a good mother, but right now I feel at a loss.<br />
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I'm glad you had a nice Christmas, and I am sure it is a huge change once the Professor ends his holiday and heads off. Some of my decorations are down. The tree and the greens are still up and yes, my cards are also hanging on the door. I will probably take them down this weekend. Taking the tree down always makes me sad though. I love having a live tree in the house. I let one stay up so long one year that when I went to take it out all the dried needles fell off on the way out to the door and by the time I got it outside the tree was bare!! I love your chains and think you've got the right idea, blue is my favorite color too!<br />
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I liked your television updates! See I knew it all wasn't proper English television. Yes, we do get all those shows. Downton 3rd Season just started here to much anticipation. I recorded it and probably won't get to it until Saturday and I just got the first season of Call The Midwife on DVD for my Grandmother for Christmas though it was in such high demand it just came in this week. I haven't seen it yet. The girls and I all love Doc Martin. At first I wasn't sure but now we are doing marathon runs of it, although I'm a bit disappointed in Season Four so far but only as most of the characters are not getting along. I want to move to a little village like Portwenn. It's so tiny and lovely with all those little houses on the hill. It is done in Cornwall, which I of course know nothing about, except it's beautiful. I could have myself a farm there.<br />
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I hope 2013 brings you some good health and much less rain! If I remember correctly you hardly got any gardening in did you? I miss your summer photos out at your table and your Auntie's bench. Thanks for the praise for the Kindred contributions, I am very excited and impatiently waiting for it to arrive! I have pretty much decided that writing is the way I want to go in 2013, with some photos thrown in for good measure, but definitely the writing. I remember once you talking about doing family history? Or a similar type of writing, are you still thinking of that? You had quite a way with it.<br />
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Good for you for for finding activities, I am trying to be less of a homebody here. I will start working with our local cat rescue group here in about a week and a friend of mine and I are considering starting a book club (one where people actually discuss the books!) We don't have anything like the WI (is it?) that you go to. It's a good idea really. Mostly any community get togethers here are church related. <br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">It was a nice Christmas here, too. We spent Christmas Day and Boxing Day with the extended family as always, and then we have had a lovely relaxing week. Lots of reading, lazing around and eating goodies. I barely even cooked a dinner - actually I cooked ONE in about eleven days. The Prof was off right over the holidays and went back to work on the 2nd January. I am missing him, now I am back to being home alone all the time.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">The decorations are coming down - slowly, which is how I do most things. A bit here, a bit there. Yesterday I tidied away most of the Christmas presents that were scattered around the living room. This morning I removed all the Christmas cards from the doors where I displayed them this year, they are in a pile on the table waiting for me to go through them all removing the bits of blu-tac. In the picture is the knitted 'paper' chain I made this year to drape over our mantel mirror. I am thinking I might make some more in non-Christmas colours to use at other times. Maybe an Easter one next, in Spring colours. A blue one, for the Prof and the Young Philosopher's birthdays (blue is both their favourite colour) Maybe I need to get out of the house more....</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;">It gave me a chuckle what you said about our television here - we have so much drivel on! I bet you just get all the lovely 'Englishy' things, Downton, Doc Martin (which actually I have never seen, is it good?), Lark Rise, Upstairs Downstairs....there is a lot of rubbish on as well, honestly. We do get US programmes a bit, I have seen police car chase type things, Judge Judy, those CSI programmes and Cheaters seems to be on a lot! We don't have any 'extra' channels either - the Prof did before he came to live here, but like you, I am too cheap! We watch a quite a lot of history programmes. For Christmas I was given the two series '1900 House' and '1940s House' which were on about 13 years ago. I really enjoyed them at the time and am looking forward to revisiting them. We watch a series sometimes when there's a good one (looking forward to the return of Call the Midwife soon!), and recently we watched Masterchef and also Strictly Come Dancing, for the first time in years, though I watch it recorded and cut out a lot of waffle with the FF button!</span><br />
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Hello my friend, it's been some time. Happy 2013! It's good to be back in this space again. I've missed our constant correspondence and look forward to these weekly letters sent back and forth.</div>
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It's a New Year and yet somehow things don't feel much different. Usually on New Year's Day I start with a cup of tea and a slow walk through the back path in the woods, but this year my girls had friends sleep over to celebrate and so after very little sleep I found myself cooking bacon and flipping French toast on a griddle in the early hours to a crowd of hungry girls and a living room that looked as if a tornado just hurled through.</div>
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We were all tired and cranky. My Em especially needs her sleep and was a monster all day and we spent the majority of the day under blankets watching back to back episodes of Doc Martin. I often think of you as we watch all our British imports television. I love them so much more than some of the other drivel that comes on here. I love that most of the shows I watch run 45 minutes to an hour and a half, allowing me to get engrossed and more often than not, run past my bedtime. I am wondering though if we get a skewed vision of British television and it's not all what we get on PBS our public broadcasting system. I wonder what television we have ends up there? We used to get BBC America until I became too cheap to pay for the extra channels. We watch most everything on rented DVD or instant streaming now anyway, I don't know why we even have a television.</div>
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So, a rough start to 2013. We had a lovely Christmas, as we've said before about it being our favorite time of year, but I am tired. I am reading a book titled <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Wild-Out-Your-Window/dp/0892725753/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1357168559&sr=1-1&keywords=the+wild+out+your+window">The Wild Out Your Window</a> that my grandmother bought me as well as a book of Mary Oliver poems. I am afraid my reading time had all but lapsed in December. The photo above I took of K this morning. Today was the girl's first day back to school after the winter holiday. She got a Kindle for Christmas but I love that she has the real book beside her too. We somehow can't get over holding that book in our hands. </div>
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She's reading the <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Skulduggery-Pleasant-Derek-Landy/dp/0061231150/ref=tmm_hrd_title_0?ie=UTF8&qid=1357168480&sr=8-1">Skulduggery Pleasant</a> series from Irish author Derek Landy. Em is obsessed with it right now and pulled her sister in as well. I was given the task of finding Em a coat based only on an illustration of the book so that she could mimic the twelve year old hero. Only three have been published here in the States and my sister bought her copies off the internet for Christmas as well. She is all in an uproar that she cannot enter the U.K. contests and register for the fan club. She's also taken to wearing her dark spy glasses along with the black, wool button down coat when we go out, with her lanky frame, tousled short hair, black coat and spy glasses, you would think she was trouble, but she can't hide how blasted cute she is. She has reached the age where she doesn't appreciate as much having her photo taken. It's all eye rolls and frustration from her these days. I think it's called hormones. Bless the gift of girls. I can't complain, I'm lucky.</div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">Thank you for reading along during the past year or so, it has been lovely to read your comments and know that you were enjoying reading along with us and our lives. You can still find Jen <a href="http://livingunderthebigbluesky.blogspot.co.uk/">under the big blue sky</a> and Debbie <a href="http://musingsandbemusings.blogspot.co.uk/">in London</a>, as always. We'd love it if you popped by. </span></div>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12552906108818415448noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-3536665642423951402012-06-28T14:52:00.000+01:002012-06-28T14:52:00.638+01:00Thursday 28th June<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">I'm back! The British Telecom engineer just left, having fixed the phone line. Despite his protestations that there was NO WAY that the fault on our phone line could have caused the broadband to drop out as well, somehow mysteriously and miraculously when he fixed the fault on the line, the internet came back. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">So here I am. I have really enjoyed my internet-free week, I have done more book-reading, as opposed to blog-reading, done some gardening and organising indoors. I love the internet, and use it daily to check things, look things up, do banking etc, as well as blog and read blogs, so it is an inconvenience to be without it, but also somehow life has seemed quieter and more simple, and I have got more done. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">It was lovely to see a full length photo of all three of you in your last letter. I would love to see the light display. One of these days I am going to make it over there...I keep planning my itinerary...<span style="background-color: white;">few days
in New York, Amish country, New England in the fall, your house for
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">You made me laugh what you said about boys...no, my boy doesn't eye roll or slam doors. He is actually really easy to get along with (although saying that feels like tempting fate!), he does what I ask, and is always happy to hoover/change his bed/take out the rubbish/pick up after the dog though sometimes it gets done on the <strike>second third fourth</strike> umpteenth time of asking...</span><br />
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year, and it was lovely to catch up. Cake was of course an added bonus, despite my<strike> diet</strike> healthy eating plan! I am so glad that you paired me with Sara when you organised that Christmas swap in 2010 between the online course participants. </span></span><br />
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Another Monday again? I can't believe sometimes how quickly the weekends go by. Truth be told I just wanted to stay in my nightgown all day today. I woke up at 6:45 a.m. threw on a sweater, high of 68 <i>(20)</i> degrees today, made a cup of tea and sat down here at the computer with my Pandora station to some really soothing music, but as dutiful as I am I dressed and went to work and fought with an ages old printer most of the morning. Patience is NOT my strong suit.</div>
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The weather forecast is saying that it will be highs of 97 <i>(36)</i> degrees later this week. I really don't know what to think of Mother Nature these days, she's fighting off global warming I suppose. You seriously don't know what season to prepare for each day. So are you telling me England's reputation is holding true? I'm sure though your sweet peas are loving all the rain. I had to smile when I read that you had them growing I remember you telling me they were a favorite. </div>
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So we were off to the gardens for an evening light display. This is the three of us outside the fountain gardens Saturday. If you ever would make your way over the sea, this is one of the first places I would show you, it's amazing. Sunday I was a bit off, don't know why. Not much sleep, disagreement with my father, feeling a bit lonely again. I think people don't really realize how lonely being a single parent can be sometimes. The world seems full of pairs and you don't have the freedom to just go out and seek out friends and relationships. It passed though and today is much better. I just had to reframe my mind. </div>
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">How proud you must have been at the graduation last week! I have a few friends with much younger children than mine, and it makes me think back to when the Young Philosopher was younger, and I wish I'd had a blog back then. I found the baby book I kept for him in the loft last week! I will have to scan some of the photos and share them with you. I have been doing a lot of thinking lately about when my boy was little, and then not so little, and then goodness where did those 21 years go? </span><br />
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</div>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12552906108818415448noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-75085130388348077392012-06-11T03:46:00.000+01:002012-06-13T14:07:28.022+01:00June 11, 2012<br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">It was graduation here this weekend. Busy times. I tried not to cry as I watched my girl make her way across the stage being promoted out of elementary school. <em>(Here we have three schools, Elementary-Grades Kindergarten-Fifth, Middle School-Grades Six through Eight and High School-Grades 9-12).</em></span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I have really been struggling a lot lately with her sense of Independence and well <em>know-it-all-ness</em>. She has definitely hit that age of rebellion and attitude. YET...this weekend was delightful. They had a little party at her best friend's house after graduation on Friday with about ten kids from their classes and it was a blast. Water balloons, super squirt guns, games, music and food. It was a great thing for both of us as we tend to spend a lot of time by ourselves; we don't necessarily have a tribe of friends that we spend time with. Over the course of the day I realized how I have been moved more to the sidelines. As they sat on the deck and sang, laughed, ate and threw things at each other I took some photos but then without the camera in front of me, I felt the need to move off into the house and give them their time. No longer am I in the mix of their playtime, coordinating and joining in. But I was so glad to see her so happy and energetic. That is her crouched in the chair in the halter dress. And that is the boy she likes in the blue shirt. Her first crush and once I met him at the party I saw why, she has good taste my girl. It was all cute and elevenish where they follow each other around smashing water balloons on each other and moving and grooving alongside each other but not really talking much. She is shy my girl, just like me and he seemed a bit too.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Her stomach got the better of her after about three hours. Too much sun and excitement and noise and junk food. I felt bad for her at first having to leave the party before the games or the sleepover but the truth was she seemed so relieved to be home. She just has a sensitive nature, too much of anything just sets her off kilter even the good things. I asked her later after some rest and some coolness if she wanted to go back for the sleepover and she said no, she was so tired. In a way I am glad that she is able to know what she needs versus needing to keep up with the other kids. She curled up in my lap and we watched a movie and she snuggled in close and I could have done anything to just hold onto the day, it was so perfect, stomachache and all.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Saturday we had a high school graduation for my cousin's daughter with the rest of my immediate family about an hour's drive away. Another great afternoon of food and family. It's amazing I guess sometimes what just getting out of the house does for you and I had Sunday to rest and clean up a bit, and eat off graduation leftovers, so I wasn't completely overwhelmed.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">So now school is out. Hooray! For me it means no homework to do in the evenings, no papers to remember to sign, no lunches to pack, no children to wrestle from bed in the morning. We can stay out while the sun is still shining about 8:30 pm these days (<em>nice</em>) and the girls are thrilled that I am not forcing them to summer camp again this year and they are spending the majority of their days next door with Great-Grandmom and Grandpa.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">In other news, I am still seeing the bluebirds flittering among the trees. The chickadee babies that we have been watching diligently in protection from the outside cats seem to have flown the nest while we were away on Saturday. Sunday morning we no longer saw the parents landing on the house and hopping in to feed them. So we are sad our little neighbors have flown off into the world. </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Summer is arriving early. Almost all our flowers have bloomed already. Half my grandmother's roses are already fading away and my hydrangea bush is already flowering, something that doesn't usually happen until late July/August. It seems our mild winter threw everything off schedule. I expect we'll start seeing the fireflies any time the way things are going. I know how fond you are of insects.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: 'Courier New', Courier, monospace;">How wonderful, a weekend at the ocean – it is so long since I went to the beach properly! We visited <a href="http://fragmentsandsparks.com/">Sara</a> last year, and had a little walk on the pebbly beach near her home, but it was rather a chilly day. Since my boy is grown up (21 this year!) I don’t go to the beach any more, really. We live an hour or so from the beach, (technically it's an estuary) and we drive through occasionally, but it’s been I don’t know how many years since I sat on the beach, tried to skim pebbles, paddled in the sea, made sandcastles. I guess I will have to wait for grandchildren. I would like to manage a day at the seaside this summer. Oh, and I know the boards you mean, only I have heard them called belly boards. I remember one in our shed when I was a child, I think it had been my Mum's.<br /><br />We've only been back a few weeks from our break in Hay-on-Wye, and already it seems so long ago. What is it about being away from home? Everything becomes so laid back, peaceful, easy, and so do we. There is a simplicity and an ease to being away that I long to incorporate into our everyday life. Our favourite escapes into the country at the weekends helps - somehow as soon as there is all that green space around me I feel I can b r e a t h e, and for once I have space in my head.<br /><br />This past weekend, as well as getting involved in the Queen's Jubilee celebrations, we spent a lot of time decluttering in our loft. It's surprising how cathartic getting rid of all that stuff really is, once you get stuck in. Most of the stuff up there has been there so long it's a no-brainer, easy to throw out, but I did find a few old treasures. Getting rid of stuff is another thing that makes it easier to breathe, I think. Maybe decluttering is the key! Although 2011 was the year I chose simplify as my word, I am still working on it. The word I chose for this year was peace, and I don't think I will ever have that until things are more simple. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Happy Monday, my friend. In this case it is as we've just returned from two days ocean side. I cannot get used to the way my new phone takes these super long photos, but in any case here is Ems and I from Saturday. Looking at this photo just slaps me on the head with how much she is growing up. It was a much needed retreat though this little spur of the moment mini vacation we took. I think we were all going slightly mad and quite ijity with each other here at home.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">The Atlantic Ocean is about 2 1/2 to 3 hours from us depending on traffic of which we had none which I was thankful for and it seems we picked the right weekend. Memorial Day weekend (last weekend) is the official "kickoff" of beach season with "Labor Day" in September closing it out, so it appears everyone was too worn out to be there this weekend so it was relatively quiet and the beach fairly free of the mobs of people usually there.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">I didn't spend much on the trip. I booked an okay room about a block from the ocean and packed a cooler full of breakfasts and lunches so we wouldn't have to eat out the whole time and of course the ocean is free. The girls though acted as if I we were flying to Paris. They were thrilled when I told them Friday we were staying at a hotel which we rarely do and you should have seen their faces pushing the elevator buttons, jumping on the beds and staring out the sixth floor windows. They oohed ahhhed over the view (of the back parking lot and neighboring houses) which made me think we really need to get out more.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">It was all quite stress-free. Ems had one of her anxiety attacks over her stomach after eating some greasy boardwalk fries (remind me never to do that again) which caused a meltdown on the boardwalk that lasted an hour and a half as Karelyn finished her shopping and we picked up pizza (for K and I) to take home, but later she felt better. The girls didn't slouch around, we were up both days at 6:00 am and out on the beach by 7:00, Saturday we actually had a sand castle built by 9:00 am. Karelyn spent her day with her boogie board (heard of them? miniature surf boards you body surf with) in the ocean being tossed about and Emily built mermaids in the sand and then had me videotape her dramatically impersonating a mermaid desperately trying to roll back to sea. Good gosh, they are two completely unique personalities.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">Regardless, I think I am the one who most enjoyed it. There was no stress (minus the boardwalk/stomach incident where I behaved a bit horribly out of frustration) It was amazing to spend a weekend where there was nothing I "must" or felt I "needed" to do. I spent a lot of my time just watching the girls or staring out at the ocean. I didn't think about home, or chores, or work, or what I want to do with my life. I just stared at awe of the magnificent big blue and listened to the waves crash and spent time being silly and caring for my girls. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Georgia, "Times New Roman", serif;">So the sand is rinsed off of everything. The clothes have been washed and everything put away. I'm trying to hold on to a bit of that easy feeling. It's almost 7:00 a.m. now and in five minutes I'm up and away to wake the girls for school and to prepare for work. I'm hoping some of the calm stays at least for today but we'll see what happens when I get to work. I've decided I pretty much like the natural world much more than the world of people, more quiet, but more on that another day.</span><br />
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<br />Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02017085659036507411noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-10053417739552822042012-04-25T22:55:00.000+01:002012-04-27T17:31:03.182+01:00Holding Pattern<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">This is an art installation not far from my home, which is called 'Holding Pattern'. The dictionary says that a holding pattern, apart from being the circular flight path of an aircraft waiting to land, is a state of waiting, or delay. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">Jennifer and I, after getting to know each other online in the Autumn of 2010 when we took part in the same e-course, started this joint blog in May 2011. I am sure I speak for both of us when I say it has been good fun and a rewarding experience. Lately though, we have both become busy with real life, other projects and our own personal blogs, and Notes Across the Sea has become a bit neglected. </span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Verdana, sans-serif;">We will leave our words and photos here, and may well be back in the future with more. In the meantime, this blog remains in a holding pattern. You can find Jennifer at <a href="http://livingunderthebigbluesky.blogspot.co.uk/">under the big blue sky</a> and me at <a href="http://musingsandbemusings.blogspot.co.uk/">Debbie In London</a>. Come over and say hello, we'd love to see you! </span></div>Debbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12552906108818415448noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-43170925814610191812012-01-31T18:00:00.000+00:002012-03-27T10:45:55.864+01:00goodbye-hello<i><span style="font-size: large;">goodbye january, adieu</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">hello february, may you please me so</span></i><br />
<i><span style="font-size: large;">that i rejoice in having you for one extra day</span></i>Jenniferhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02017085659036507411noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3719881776853820089.post-20804310126256135342012-01-31T14:25:00.003+00:002012-01-31T14:32:07.474+00:0031st<div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">Yet another grey, cold, foggy day. </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">I fold January up, pack it away in a drawer</span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;">and breathe </span></div><div class="MsoNormal"><span style="font-size: large;"><br />
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